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第29章 成功并不难The Principle of Success

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成功是什么?

我并不打算诠释成功,要精确地下一个定义是不可能的。成功是在奥运会上赢得金牌、赢得温布尔登大奖赛,或被授予诺贝尔奖,又或是其他什么吗?我认为,一个人的成功其实可以是任何事情——它不必受到公众的认可。不快乐的百万富翁,和没人理会却生活得简单、快乐的人,谁更成功呢?成功最简单的定义,我认为是“开始做某件事,并在做的过程中获得成就感”。至于具体做什么,做的事情有多么渺小,都不重要。

相信自己能成功,你就会获得成功。也许,生活的目标就是,无论你作何尝试,都向成功努力。因为它使你从烦恼中解脱出来,不是吗?

对于我们每一个人来说,成功的意义都有所不同。一些人认为成功要用经济形式来衡量,比如,拥有财富;另一些人认为成功是乐于助人,而不是帮助自己。也许有人认为两者兼而有之,或者,成功只是为了达到目的而已。成功是个人的事。对很多人来说,成功是他们生存的根本——我们存在的理由就是要去完成生命中一些有价值的事。对很大一部分人来说,成功与否无关紧要;而对我来说,也无所谓,只要这是你真正想要的,并能快乐地生活。还是有很多人渴望并激励自己追求公众的认可,通过残酷的竞争获得成功。多少人会真正快乐呢?多少人是真正在做他们想做的事呢?(附带一句,人之所以有别于动物,是因为我们有想象力。)

不论是什么激发你个人的追求,不管你选择一生做什么,不要期待立刻成功——多年的奋斗、努力和学习,以及如何选择你奋斗的领域或者职业,这并不是一件容易的事。我完全同意这个观点,要想在任何一个领域获得成功,都需要勇气、品质和自律。所有成功的人几乎都曾在某方面怀疑过自己,并想过要放弃。但是,他们坚持了下去。在离矿井中的金矿层仅有一两英尺的时候,很多人放弃了,与成功仅有一步之遥。可以肯定的是:成功孕育成功,因为它自身积累了动力,当一切顺利时,你便获得了迅速成功的机会。

我喜欢下面这些语录,它们都能代表我个人对成功的理解,因此,我愿与你分享:

“成功是不断向预先确定的有价值的目标前进的旅程。”“以自己的方式生活,达到自己定下的目标,做自己想做的人——这就是成功。”

What is success?

I am not going to try to define success.I think a precise definition is impossible.Is it winning a Gold Medal at the Olympic Games or winning Wimbledon,or being awarded a Nobel Prize?What else?I believe personal success could be anything at all—it does not have to involve public recognition.Who is more successful?A millionaire who is unhappy,or an unnoticed person who has led a simple,happy life?The simplest definition of success I think is“to set out to do something and to succeed in doing it”.It really doesn’t matter what,or how humble the undertaking is.

Believe you can succeed and you will.Achieving success in whatever endeavor you choose may be the goal of life.Because it gives you freedom from worry.Could that be?

Success means different things to every one of us.Some people believe it is measured in financial terms,i.e.having wealth;others believe it is helping others rather than helping themselves.A bit of both perhaps!Or it could be simply achieving for achievement’s sake.Success is such a personal thing.To many people it is the very root of their being—the reason for existing is to achieve something worthwhile in our lives.To the vast majority of the population it doesn’t matter much whether they want to be successful or not;that’s OK by me,as long as that is what you really want and you are happy with life.However,most people want and are motivated to a great extent by public recognition and a relentless pursuit of achievement.How many people too are really happy?How many people are really doing what they want to with their lives?(Incidentally,the ability to imagine makes us different from animals.)

No matter what motivates you personally...whatever you choose to do with your life,don’t expect instant success.The years of struggle,commitment and learning in excelling at whatever endeavor or trade you choose,is no easy task.I would wholeheartedly agree with that statement.It takes a lot of courage,character and discipline to achieve success in any field.Nearly all successful people have doubted themselves at some point and wanted to give up.Yet they carried on.So many people give up within an inch or two away from the gold in the seam down the mine—a whisker away from success.One thing is for sure:success breeds SUCCESS,as it gathers a momentum of its own and you get on an inning streak when everything seems to fit into place.

I like all of the following quotations.They all stand for what success means to me personally.So I’ll share them with you...

“Success is the continuous journey towards the achievement of predetermined worthwhile goals.”“To live your life in your own way.To reach the goals you’ve set for yourself.To be the person you want to be—that is success.”